All of these above helped me limit the smartphone usage; it didn't take away my constant urge of looking at the phone completely.. Then I found the ULTIMATE Mantra which prevented not only me but my kids from using Smartphone unnecessarily
Monday, May 31, 2021
Life Hack Series - Smart Phone Deaddiction - Monochrome Mode
Sunday, May 30, 2021
Life Hack Series - Smart Phone Deaddiction - Out of Mind is Out of Sight
Saturday, May 29, 2021
Life Hack Series - Smart Phone Deaddiction - Is Phone with me Or I am with the Phone?
When I need directions while driving
I have to book a cab
Order food online
Tuesday, May 25, 2021
Narasimha Mantra - ನರಸಿಂಹ ಮಂತ್ರವೊಂದಿರಲು ಸಾಕು
Today is Narasimha Jayathi. A very powerful day...My prayers to Narasimha in the form of a song that says that with Narasimha Mantra all the difficulties and obstacles are removed and gives immense blessings and joy. This mantra gives victory in warfares...Narasimha Mantra will help all of us through these difficult times.
ನರಸಿಂಹ ಮಂತ್ರವೊಂದಿರಲು ಸಾಕು
ದುರಿತ ಕೋಟಿಯ ತರಿದು ಭಾಗ್ಯವನ್ನು ಕೊಡುವ ||
ಶಿಶುವಾದ ಪ್ರಹ್ಲಾದನ ಬಾಧೆ ಬಿಡಿಸಿದ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಅಸುರಕುಲದವರಿಗೆ ಶತ್ರು ಮಂತ್ರ
ವಸುಧೆಯೊಳು ಪಾತಕಿಗಳ ಭವ ಹೀರುವ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಪಶುಪತಿಗೆ ಪ್ರಿಯವಾದ ದಿವ್ಯ ಮಂತ್ರ (1)
ದಿಟ್ಟ ಧ್ರುವರಾಯನಿಗೆ ಪಟ್ಟಗಟ್ಟಿದ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಶಿಷ್ಟ ವಿಭೀಷಣನ ಪೊರೆವ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಕಟ್ಟ ಕಡೆಯಲಿ ಅಜಾಮಿಳನ ಸಲಹಿದ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಮುಟ್ಟಿ ಭಜಿಸಿದವರಿಗೆ ಮೋಕ್ಷ ಮಂತ್ರ (2)
ಹಿಂಡುಭೂತವ ಕಡಿದು ತುಂಡು ಮಾಡುವ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಕೊಂಡಾಡೋ ಲೋಕಕೆ ಪ್ರಪಂಚ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಗಂಡುಗಲಿ ಕದನ ಉದ್ದಂಡ ವಿಕ್ರಮ ಮಂತ್ರ
ಪುಂಡರೀಕಾಕ್ಷ ಪುರಂದರ ವಿಠಲ ಮಂತ್ರ(3)
Monday, May 24, 2021
Parkinson's Law and Magnificent M
Saturday, May 22, 2021
Obsession with Self Improvement
I am obsessed with Self - Improvement. But sometimes I wonder why do I have to be this way! And I found the answer...
I came across this beautiful equation a long time back which shows that doing small but consistent things will result in a considerable change while sitting and not doing anything! Quite profound..
Thursday, May 20, 2021
Wisdom of ages - Thumb Rules for finding a Groom
Today my husband MM shared an interesting with me- something his Grandfather used to say. This is fact or let's say a Thumb Rule which people followed during his Grandfather's days.
In the olden days, people will give a girl in marriage to a groom only if he satisfied 3 basic rules:
1. Groom Family should own a house
2. Family should have a cow.
3. Family should have a Drumstick tree in their backyard.
This rule of Thumb ensured a level of safety for the girl getting married. Own House is always a safe feeling.Cow ensured there is milk available to the family.
The interesting point is the Drumstick tree. MM's family hails from dry regions of Tamil Nadu and hence a DRunstick tree being drought-resistant will give vegetables(pods) and leaves any time of the year and also in abundance. Every part of the tree is so useful and nutritious. It is the source of Protein, Calcium, Iron, vitamins A, and C so on...
This was such a smart way of ensuring health and Oxygen! If you look at this in a larger light, then this was a way to ensure people planted and grew trees near their houses, in their backyards, and where they lived!
It's time to rethink and rephrase these rules again..specifically Rule#3 - How about looking for OTG..Organic Terrace Garden!
Wednesday, May 19, 2021
Do not Leave Hope - WhatsApp Wisdom
Tuesday, May 18, 2021
Monday, May 17, 2021
Chidananda Rupah Shivo'ham Shivo'ham - Shankara Jayanthi
śruti smṛti purāṇānām ālayama karuṇālayam |
namāmi bhagavatpādama śaṁkaraṁ loka śaṁkaram ||
Today is Shankara Jayatathi, the day when Adi Shankaracharya took birth.
Adi Shankara has mesmerized me since my childhood. The stories from Amar Chitra Katha, the story of Sharada Temple at Sringeri gave me goose bumps whenever I heard or read them. The life of Shankaracharya in itself is a miracle. Going around India 4 times in his lifetime on foot 1000 years back is just astonishing..
I am ever drawn to his teachings and draw inspiration from them. Shlokas from Bhaja Govindam I could recite from an early age as my Mother had taught them in an easy tune. As it was easy to understand, I enjoyed reciting as well as listening to it. It has been my continued effort to follow in life. So I consider Shankara Jayathi a special day.
Of late, I have been enchanted by Nirvana Shatakam or Atma Shatakam. In six soothing stanzas, Shankaracharya gives a deeper meaning of what a human is. It's like answering a MCQ wherein all the options are eliminated to get an answer as "None of the above" and says that I am that Knowing and Bliss ...I am Shiva Pure Love...
ನ ಚ ವ್ಯೋಮ ಭೂಮಿರ್-ನ ತೇಜೋ ನ ವಾಯುಃ
ಚಿದಾನಂದ ರೂಪಃ ಶಿವೋಹಂ ಶಿವೋಹಮ್ || 1 ||
na cha shrotravjihve na cha ghraana netre
na cha vyoma bhumir na tejo na vaayuhu
chidananda rupah shivo'ham shivo'ham
I am not the ears, the skin, the nose or the eyes,
I am not space, not earth, not fire, water or wind,
I am the form of consciousness and bliss,
I am the eternal Shiva...
ನ ವಾ ಸಪ್ತಧಾತುರ್-ನ ವಾ ಪಂಚ ಕೋಶಾಃ |
ನವಾಕ್ಪಾಣಿ ಪಾದೌ ನ ಚೋಪಸ್ಥ ಪಾಯೂ
ಚಿದಾನಂದ ರೂಪಃ ಶಿವೋಹಂ ಶಿವೋಹಮ್ || 2 ||
na va sapta dhatur na va pancha koshah
na vak pani-padam na chopastha payu
chidananda rupah shivo'ham shivo'ham
I am not matter, nor the 5 sheaths of consciousness
Nor am I the speech, the hands, or the feet,
I am the form of consciousness and bliss,
I am the eternal Shiva...
ಮದೋ ನೈವ ಮೇ ನೈವ ಮಾತ್ಸರ್ಯಭಾವಃ |
ನ ಧರ್ಮೋ ನ ಚಾರ್ಧೋ ನ ಕಾಮೋ ನ ಮೋಕ್ಷಃ
ಚಿದಾನಂದ ರೂಪಃ ಶಿವೋಹಂ ಶಿವೋಹಮ್ || 3 ||
na me vai mado naiva matsarya bhavaha
na dharmo na chartho na kamo na mokshaha
chidananda rupah shivo'ham shivo'ham
I know not pride or jealousy,
I have no duty, no desire for wealth, lust or liberation,
I am the form of consciousness and bliss,
I am the eternal Shiva...
ನ ಮಂತ್ರೋ ನ ತೀರ್ಧಂ ನ ವೇದಾ ನ ಯಙ್ಞಃ |
ಅಹಂ ಭೋಜನಂ ನೈವ ಭೋಜ್ಯಂ ನ ಭೋಕ್ತಾ
ಚಿದಾನಂದ ರೂಪಃ ಶಿವೋಹಂ ಶಿವೋಹಮ್ || 4 ||
na mantro na tirtham na veda na yajnah
aham bhojanam naiva bhojyam na bhokta
chidananda rupah shivo'ham shivo'ham
I need no mantras, no pilgrimage, no scriptures or rituals,
I am not the experienced, nor the experience itself,
I am the form of consciousness and bliss,
I am the eternal Shiva...
pita naiva me naiva mataa na janmaha
na bandhur na mitram gurur naiva shishyaha
chidananda rupah shivo'ham shivo'ham
ಪಿತಾ ನೈವ ಮೇ ನೈವ ಮಾತಾ ನ ಜನ್ಮ |
ನ ಬಂಧುರ್-ನ ಮಿತ್ರಂ ಗುರುರ್ನೈವ ಶಿಷ್ಯಃ
ಚಿದಾನಂದ ರೂಪಃ ಶಿವೋಹಂ ಶಿವೋಹಮ್ || 5 ||
I have no father, no mother, for I was never born,
I am not a relative, nor a friend, nor a teacher nor a student,
I am the form of consciousness and bliss,
I am the eternal Shiva...
ವಿಭೂತ್ವಾಚ್ಚ ಸರ್ವತ್ರ ಸರ್ವೇಂದ್ರಿಯಾಣಾಮ್ |
ನ ವಾ ಬಂಧನಂ ನೈವ ಮುಕ್ತಿ ನ ಬಂಧಃ |
ಚಿದಾನಂದ ರೂಪಃ ಶಿವೋಹಂ ಶಿವೋಹಮ್ || 6 ||
vibhut vatcha sarvatra sarvendriyanam
na cha sangatham naiva muktir na meyaha
chidananda rupah shivo'ham shivo'ham
I exist everywhere, pervading all senses,
I am neither attached, neither free nor captive,
I am the form of consciousness and bliss,
I am the eternal Shiva...
Sunday, May 16, 2021
Comedy and Communication - Random Thoughts
- Those days having a telephone at home was such a luxury and nobody felt the invasion of privacy even when talking with the whole family around!
- Now even with personal phones, a peek at other's phones by chance will be considered an intervention...
- It's ironic that with so many gadgets and advancements in communication, the gap between people has increased than bringing them together!
- The Big Fat Phone has become Smarter but the phone call quality has hardly improved in these years.
Saturday, May 15, 2021
In the Country of Deceit - Book I Read & Recommend
"The place you live in is like your skin, something you inhabit without being conscious of it.."
This is one of the many elegant lines from the book "In the Country of Deceit" by Shashi Deshpande.
Reading fiction was a kind of lost ability for me. So if I had to get this back to fiction it was possible to do only with Shashi Deshpande's book. That's how I picked this book. I am also bit afraid to read her as the characters and the lines lingers in mind for a very long time.
I am happy this was a light read though it left a lasting impression.
Through Devayani and letters to her, the author opens up many aspects of life like love, marriage, relationships, family, property disputes. Devayani's interaction with Rani and her life reminds the life of movie stars like Arathi or Maadhavi or someone who were very big sometimes but not to be seen now. The characters are so real that I could associate them with somebody..known or heard. That is the beauty of her writings. You know they exist somewhere.
Devayani's quiet existence, sort of contented life really surprised me. why and how is she so happy? or neutral? I could not comprehend.
Reading the book was watching a movie with no loud background score. where we don't want to miss a single scene. The letters were so refreshing...I wish we could open up to someone so concisely and clearly. This is only possible in letters maybe... WhatsApp and messaging have made us so fast that we don't take time to articulate!
Some of the lines from Sindhu's letters will remain in memory for very long!
"My own children have taught me how futile it is to advise anyone.. Nobody wants your advice. I sometimes think how strange it is that we can never pass on the benefits of our experience and memory! No wonder we never learn and make the same mistakes over and over again.."
"Collective experience has value.. Individual experience has none.."
Friday, May 14, 2021
Catch the Positive - The Home Work Book - ಮನೆಕೆಲಸದ ಪುಸ್ತಕ
The primary school in which I studied was very unique. St. Philomena's School was a Convent Girls school. We had many sisters as teachers and all the subjects were taught by a single teacher who was also the Class teacher. So as students we would interface only with seven teachers during our time in the school. In total there were only 14 teachers/sisters for 1 to 7th std. This was one of the ways the school had optimized the expenses hence we had very low School Fees.
Here are some of the rare practices of the school:
- Every day as homework we had to write multiplication tables on one side of the slate and some diction words on the other side. Other school children did not even know what a slate is!
- At school once a week there will be a dictation given for the tables and words. The slates from Section A are corrected by Section B and Vice versa. Whichever section gets the highest marks is the winner. This happed every week all the years!
- There were no uniform shoes, belts, and ties. Just plain Green pinafore and a yellow shirt! Bare simple!
- Every year the school day performance happened twice. One performance for school kids and again once more for the parents. This was they avoided the crowds and also rehearsal for the performance in front of the parents
- For the school day, students got a Puff and honey cake from a bakery about a Kilo Meter away.
- Children made a chain from school to the bakery and passed the trays to each other. This is how these bakery items reached school! Very cost-effective at the same time a superb team building activity.
- Independence day, Gandhi Jayathi, Republic day was never celebrated. I wonder why?
- It was a Kannada medium school where A, B, C, D was introduced at Class 5.
- Class Room Maintenance was done by the school children during the last period of the school. Each class was divided into 5-6 groups. In a round-robin fashion, each group had to sweep and mop their own classroom for a week. As I remember the whole school had hardly 2 support staff.
- During this time others had to sit outside but near the classroom and have to complete the home assignments!
Thursday, May 13, 2021
Compass For Life - A Poem
Today my Daughter Young MM wrote a beautiful poem about life during the pandemic in a jiffy. I was charmed by the poetic sense as she recited it in her lovely voice, again and again, to check if it sounded right. Looks like it rubbed on to me quite well.
In an enchanted flow, I wrote my first Poem ever! Thank you Young MM, you are my literary Inspiration!
Compass for Life
How would one react if someone says,
that she draws inspiration from a "Compass"?
I heard someone chuckle, what is there in a Compass?
But then I saw a whole world in that "word".
Be it for Sailor or a Mountaineer.
Or if you are lost in wood or road unknown,
Without a single tick on your mobile!
Pick up this age-old tool.
My friend, he will not let you down!
A Compass showed just one thing – Here’s the North!
Knowing this is all that matters,
I wish to be like that object,
And be sure of just one thing,
of being in the Right Direction!
Tuesday, May 11, 2021
Back to Books - Book I Read & Recommend
I had lost the habit of reading books for reasons unknown to me for about 6 months. Whatever I do, whichever book I pick up, I just could not read more than a couple of pages. Like I was under a spell or maybe it's called Reader's Block! Anyway, I am happy that I was able to come out of it now...
The book which broke this spell is Twinkle Khanna's Mrs Funnybones! I loved this book. It is a very light read and I felt the book finished too fast and I could have read a few more of her stories...
But it gave a glimpse into life of celebrities by birth and their lifestyle..like just touch and Go.
Plus I loved chapters about Karva Chauth and other stories written in a satirical way without offending! This also has many good lines..One particularly I liked is :
“Each day that you persist in a situation where you are miserable is a day wasted on the path that would lead you to happiness.”
All in all a Good Read!
The next book that I read is If Truth Be Told by Om Swami. This is one of the most captivating stories that I have read. It is a contemporary and astonishing story of a millionaire turning to a monk.Before renunciation, there comes a point where He would have lost most of his money but he dismisses the idea of renunciation at that point as he reasons that as a penniless what is there to renounce! Something to remember for leading life..
After which he bounces back and achieves huge success financially ultimately to renounce everything with a touching email.
A very intriguing read!Monday, May 10, 2021
Mother's day - A Day to Celebrate Mom's
Sunday, May 9, 2021
WhatsApp Wisdom : Sunflower and Empowering Each other
Artistic Rendition - DP to Portrait
Two of my friends did my portrait at the same time without my knowledge from my Whatsapp DP! That was a pleasant surprise! I felt terrific! ...